Are Bk men better lovers

You have often hear the slogan, when you go bk, you never go back. the basis of this goes back once again to stereotypes and to the perception to live up to the stereotype. Because of the history of this issue, bk men tend to put more effort in pleasing their lovers than most other men tend to do. Many non bk men, for social economic reasons are more interested in power than pleasure and therefore wish more to be pleased than to please. This makes it very easy for the stereotype to live on

Are bk men really bigger

I regret to say, no. the average penis for all races is 6 inches, which is also the average depth of the female vagina. So why do so many people think bk men have bigger penises. Interesting answer. Non bk penises when soft are approximately the same size when they are erect, while bk penises when soft are much smaller than they are when they are erect. I believe, it is the change in the size of the bk penis from soft to hard that has led to a part of the rumor, together with the fulfillment of the stereotype the tends to show only the biggest of the bk penises, a stereotype that was an out growth of slavery and the animal analogy

Are there more than one kind of Orgasm

Yes, there are several, vaginal, clitoral, anal and mental. Masturbation in many women has the result of changing the seat of passion from the vaginal lips to the clitoris. While many younger women have discover the pleasure of anal sex (the anal cavity has more nerve endings than the vagina) , mental orgasm produce by far the more intense orgasm because the erotic mind of the woman must be totally engaged for this orgasm to occur. In fact, the mental orgasm in a woman, most closely resembles that of the male orgasm since both must be totally engaged to reach orgasm. Unfortunately, very few women ever achieve or, are even aware that such a thing exists. Most are taught to believe it is the physical experience, that produces the only kind of orgasm and therefore, since their minds are never totally engaged in the physical mode, they never achieve erotic completion

I have dark desires, what is wrong with me

Nothing, in all likelihood, Eroticism in women is varied as grains of sand on the beach although society tries to force all women into a narrow tunnel of sex based upon the religios theory that sex should be for procreation only and otherwise abstained from. One of the great advantages of the internet has been the discovery by women that their view of eroticism is enjoyed by a very large number of women. A womans erotic desires are framed by her gene pool, intellect, imagination, passion and life experiences. Many women have adopted the view that all that brings them pleasure and harms no one, should be pursued to its logical conclusion.

How does one become Dominate or Submissive

Domination or Submission is a gene trait, hard wired into your brain when conceived. While I have never seen any formal evidence, it is my experience that Domination and Submission exists equally in both males and females. However, it is important to understand, the degree of an individuals Domination or Submissive trait varies widely and can be adversely or positively effected by their life experiences.

How do Men and Women differ in their Sexual Pleasure

Men are simple to please, women are much more complex, and therefore almost never fulfilled. Sex exists almost totally in the mind and is expressed through the body. A man, once stimulated has his erotic mind totally engaged when he moves to erection and therefore will attain total release. Woman on the other hand, must engage her mind totally to achieve total release, but having no measurement like the male erection to measure her success, often must settle for what ever her partner decides is enough. For a woman to reach erotic completion, her mind must be free of fear, entrusting in her partner and totally focused on the moment. Unfortunately, this level of engagement, rarely occurs and therefore, most women settle for a fraction of release , forever thinking, that is all there is.

Is there such a thing as a nymphomatic

No, A woman described by themselves or their partners as a Nympho is simply a woman who has not found a partner will to pay attention to and identify her core erotic needs. fullfill her needs and fatisfaction will come very soon

Why are so many women not happy

women are technically stronger than men but men are physically stronger than women. Man learned many years ago, that he had to find a way to control his woman, so they turned to organizations religious and otherwise to scare women into control. Man succeeded beyond his wildest imagination and women are therefore taught that their natural feelings of passion are unnatural or immoral. women attempt to deal with this conflict between society and self by any nomber of destructive habits, most notably food, drugs, depression, etc.

can strong successful women be submissives

yes, in fact, many are. while successful in their professional careers, they welcome someone else to control in their own space. Most of the most successful relationships include strong intelligent women who happen to be submissive in nature

Are Submissives weak or needy people

no, considering most people are more submissive than dominate, a relationship between master and slave is a relationship of Equals, with each partner contributing opposite and complimentary needs to the relationship

How dose D/S Differ from Ordinary Relationships

Relationship between a Dominate and A Submissive begin with trust and mutual respect and eventually work their way to more traditional feelings. Traditional relationship begin with intimacy and romance, then after the relationship is created, they try to find trust and respect. This is why so many traditional relationships fail today because they leave the tough issues to the end while d/s address them upfront

How do I know if I am Submissive

If you prefer to give, than to receive and if you wish to giveup some or all control over your life, you are most likely Submissive

How do i choose a master

Masters and Slaves share one thing in common, both respond to their core needs as people. therefore you must identify your core needs as they differ from your wants. match your core needs with those of your prospective master. The closer the match the better the relationship

Can I teach my friend to dominate me

No, you are born to be either Dominate or Submissive and no amount of training can change that. Bear in mind however, there are many shades of both domination and submission from almost none to total. Find your natural role and enjoy it