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Women have been fooling men forever because it is so easy to do, and two because it puts the female in a much better control position than she would have been had she permitted the sex act to complete to orgasm. Orgasm tends to create an emotional investment in the female mind, so it's woman's way of protecting herself from men only interested in casual sex.

It is a known fact that woman can always tell if a man is fully invested in the sex act by the condition of his penis, but man has no such visual knowledge with respect to the degree of womans physical or mental investment in any prospective sex act. Woman has known forever, that man generally only cares about his sexual release, so they simply go along for the ride until man has finished. Even worse, so complete is the sexual deception that rare is the man who has ever experienced a female orgasm. Knowing this, often women perform oral sex knowing that once finished, the act will be over.

Enter the new world of anal sex which women are all to happy to provide to men as a substitute for vaginal sex, despite the fact that for many, this proves to be uncomfortable. While there are some women who can orgasm from anal sex, most simply play out the string until the male is finished. The woman has pleased the man and risked not only an unwanted pregnancy but due to the absence of a female orgasm, there is no, or limited personal  investment in the relationship with her male partner because most can not orgasm from anal sex given their lack of comfort and or fear in its performance.

In a sense, men deserve this treatment because they are often only interested in casual sex, but is this a healthy relationship for his female partner. I will argue it is healthy to prevent personal investment in a man who has interest only in casual sex, but unhealthy for the woman's mental health because the female orgasm is nature's way of releasing her excess pent up emotions. Failure to release those pent up emotions which are a by product of her hormones, runs the risk of emotional imbalance often leading to food, alcohol, or substance abuse which if not checked causes depression.

One way, some women deal with this balance issue is through frequent aerobic exercise, which accomplishes the needed release but certainly with out as much pleasure were it released sexually with her partner. Many women seek out female partners for this very same reason, but there again the same problem exists if the fear of commitment is greater than the desire to orgasm. Its a balancing act between the need to release and the need to protect, and whatever the choice, its her mind, not her body which will decide if and to whom that mind release is to be permitted. 

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What do the words Nymphomaniac

and Frigid have in Common

Each condition defines opposite ends of the same issue, "fear". A woman who describes herself as Frigid, generaly experiences discomfort and or pain when having vaginal sex. A woman who describes herself as Nymphomaniac is consumed by a constant need for sex, never seeming to get enough. These two sexual conditions are flip sides of the same issue.

To understand why this is so, you must first appreciate that unknown to most, sex is like everything else in the human body, a mind issue, not a physical one. Any traumatic event, has the potential to block nerve pathways from the vagina to the brain, there by preventing orgasm as in Nymphomaniac or by masking pleasure as pain as in Frigid. No matter how the brain is spoofed the result is the same, both are denied sexual fullfillment by their in ability to orgasm.

The nerve block can have many causes but the prime cause is any event the result of which, the mind registers as mental trauma. This event is often abuse in its many forms, and often, when it occurs in early childhood, PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) denies the abused, any memory of the event which caused the mental trauma 

The good news is whatever the brain caused to be, can be undone, but only with the aid of professional  counseling and only by counselors who specialize in this area. In cases of PTSD, while it is helpful to remember the trauma, it is often not necessary to remove the mental block.

Women who consider themselves as Frigid, generally do not advertise their sexual disfunction, but many women who consider them selves to be nymphomaniac revel in sharing their condition with anyone who will listen, never realizing, nymphomaniac was a term, invented by men to describe a woman who could not orgasm.

Everything sexual is mind based and therefore subject to any event which creates sufficient trauma to reverse traditional nerve pathways from the body to the brain. Consequently, there are many myths about sex, the most frequent being size matter, which turns out to be true, except its the size of the mind, not the size of any body parts that matter. Given that the mind, is the dominate sexual organ of the body, those who are fortunate enough to never have suffered mental abuse and be conditioned to orgasm on their or others simple request.