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Dominant vs Master

Is there, or if so what is, the difference between a Dominate man or woman and a Master. The answer is simple. A Dominate will command your body to obey, and you may or may not respond.

A Master will command your mind to yield to his or her will, and your body will obey without question.

It is for that reason, only time and experience can produce a Master, while birth alone can produce a Dominate.

Each slave must decide the depth of the commitment she needs to complete her service, and which type, Dominate or Master will be required to achieve the satisfaction of that need.

Nympho's

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Nympho's

The concept of women, whose sexual appetite is beyond satisfaction is a fantasy, invented by men to explain their inability to bring a sex partner to orgasm and completion. Whenever, a woman's erotic mind is not engaged in sex, no completion will occur no matter how long or how many sex partners she might have. This explains gang bangs where women simply turn off or dis engage their erotic minds for sexual exercise something the kids call sport fucking. Unfortunately, far too many women have no idea where the switch lies to turn their erotic minds on, nor do their partners have any idea that there is such a need and a switch.

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The Nature of Erotic Energy

The human body is composed many parts and pieces, but among the most essential are the energy cells, fueled by the chemistry, that produce power and makes motion and thought possible. This energy cell, often in religious circles referred to as the spirit, is what dissipates upon death of the physical body. The energy that fuels our daily life, is at death, returned to the environment to seek other opportunities since the amount of energy in the universe is constant. Therefore, what was once a part of human energy, may migrate into any other living thing.

This energy, that fuels our physical and mental being can be used by and expressed by the human body in many forms. To the extent our available energy is not required for motion or thought, it is stored by the body until the body's power, demands its release. The sexes, generally release this excess energy in different ways, voluntarily or spontaneously without conscious thought. Bursts of anger, passion, the arts, sports , physical activity are some of the obvious ways excess energy is released.

This writer has long wondered about the difference between men and women as it relates to their susceptibility to depression, because the rate of depression in women is far greater than in men. I postulated that this was generally caused by a failure in women to release passion, a problem most men do not have. However, what i failed to take into account was that passion was but one of many forms of energy which could be dissipated in other ways.

Men for example, while not generally as passionate as women, still have the same amount of energy as women, yet they express it in so call macho ways. Men enjoy physical activities from sports to war, each of which permits the release of their pent up energy.

Woman on the other hand, tends to be less physically macho, and therefore have less of a tenancy to release as much excess energy as do men in their daily lives. Unless they are predisposed to male type physical release, they must seek other outlets for their excess energy. Erotic passion is but one, of the many ways excess energy can be released by women, but unfortunately, it is the only release available to most, yet few achieve that release as explained earlier in this blog.

Activities which are mind based, such as artistic design, playing music are other ways energy can be released. Physical sports such as running and swimming, aerobics etc, also provide a release of excess energy. Most have heard of the so called runners high, that is accomplished by the feeling of energy release.

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Men Fuck to cum, women fuck to Breath

It is interesting, how physiologically, men and women, generally without conscientious knowledge, approach sex, with totally different needs, which to them, appear the same.

Man, by his sheer simplicity, generally maintains a limited focus, cuming at any price, usually without regard for the need of his partner to achieve a similar climax.

Women are much more complicated creatures by nature but have learned to subvert their sexual needs to that of pleasing her male partner, even and usually at the expense of her erotic needs. Women have learned, when man asks "was the good for you honey, she must respond with yes dear, it was the best", even as her erotic needs are dieing inside, for to risk offending male superiority, is to lose the partner, be sexually called cold, and worse yet to be defined as a nympho, which is at best only a figment of mans imagination as a way to deal with women they can not satisfy.

The erotic needs of women run far deeper than even most women realize and are directly linked to their mental health. A healthy sex life, is a womans way of balancing her excess passion. Without a healthy sex life to balance their passion, women slip easily into depression as the passion seeks, like water, to find its own level. See discussions of the link between passion and depression else where on this site.

The link between sexual completion and passion is the single biggest difference between the sexes and the most important reason why woman can not permit their sex life to be less than satisfactory given the needs of their passion to be released.

Women have to be strong enough to explain to their partners, before sex, that there exists the possibility that the male climax alone may not give her the release she requires. Women, who have masterbated extensively, have also altered the recepters in their vigina such that the labia lips no longer provide the primary sexual stimulus they once did, and now digital stimulation of the clit becomes necessary for them to achieve erotic completion.

Women who have issues, arising from molestation, rape, incest abandonment, etc, generally, can not achieve sexual completion, until the circumstances of the abuse is resolved in her mind such that guilt is no longer a barrier to erotic completion. Once again, failure to share that information with her partner, guarantees sexual failure since the past will mentally block erotic pleasure and the woman will be considered as cold or uninstristed.

Therefore, it is imparative that women, freely share their needs and erotic history with their male and female partners before sex, and abandon any partner who is not inclined to consider their needs as important as that of the other partner. Any woman, who dares not find the way to erotic completion, will find depression becomes her best friend. Release the pentup passion, and watch the depression go away

Women liberation, extends to the bedroom, not just the board room.