Pregnancy, 101

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Every wonder why, so many young women, get pregnant the very first time they have sex. Ever ask yourself, when and why do i get pregnant. These are questions, i am discovering few if anyone really understands, so i thought it worth the time to share the answer that might make life for some simpler.

Generally speaking, women ovulate in the middle of their cycle, with the cycle usually but not always consisting of approximately 28days, ovulation should occur on or about the 14th day. Some women can feel their ovulation occurring, most can not. The period during which a woman can get pregnant is therefore 48 hours before and after ovulation or days 12 to 16 of the cycle.

Given that the egg is usually only viable for 24 hours, the sperm however is viable for 48 hours so within that 4 day period, almost any thing can happen. Now back to why so many women get pregnant on their first sex experience, the day of ovulation is also the day when a woman most needs to have sex and has less will power to say no.

There are however, a large number of women whose periods are not regular in either cycle days of month and for them, absent feeling ovulation, no such safe period exists except during the menstrual cycle itself, a point in time mot wish to avoid sex altogether, but also a time when many women find their need to have sex greatly enhanced.

Harmones, A Delicate Balance of Gender

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So many people, both female and male fear their personalities for the simple reason they are submissive by operation of birth and therefore believe by definition, that submissive trait renders them weak and afraid. Consequently, they spend much of their life doing their best to hide their submissive side, living for the most part in object misery, playing a role that is not who they are, until, one day, their submissive reality comes face to face with real life in such a moment that they can no longer deny their submissive birth

While gender is a hormone based concept, both men and women share differing amounts of both male and female hormones. More people are naturally submissive than are dominant so therefore many men have an in balance of estrogen relative to testosterone Consequently, it is not unusual for a woman with normal estrogen levels to be attracted to a male with high estrogen levels because she is seeking a man of greater sensitivity. Often however, that same woman is disappointed when the males does not demonstrate the dominant traits so often considered normal for men.

Persons, generally male but occasionally female who have an in balance of testosterone relative to estrogen are almost always dominant in nature and possess few if any nurturing qualities. This person is not the hands on child rearing type, especially in their younger years.

Hormones do not lie, know what you are and what you need, so at the end of the day, there are no surprises.