Time

When asked, what is the most important single thing in my life, I always respond, TIME. Time is the one thing over which you have no control, in either its beginning or its end. Many have been heard to say, i will do that tomorrow, only to discover, tomorrow, never comes for them and that opportunity is lost forever. This moment, is now history, it will never ever be repeated again. Therefore, one must never waste the moment at hand for that is all you are guaranteed. You could say, life is all about stringing together, a succession of moments, squeezing from each all that the moment will yield, for not to do so, is an accident waiting to happen.

Listening, the greater sense.

Education and life teach you to enhance many things, but little or now attention is paid to the critical skill of listening. In many instances, in an attempt to fit in, we are so busy thinking about our next thought that we pay only slight attention to what is being said. Learning how to perfect the skill of listening will provide you with great returns and much better understanding of the world around you. Perhaps, an even greater sill is the ability to hear that which is not said and understand the role silence plays in an otherwise verbal conversation.

I like or need to be told what to do. Is that wrong

Most people male or female, enjoy being told what to do, to one extent or another. People who join the military, clubs, gangs, d/s relationships and the super duper club of all, religion, each exhibit different forms of mind and physical control. The need or the desire for control is a character trait, hard wired into your brain at birth and therefore is nothing to be ashamed of or to fear, except the motivation of the person or group to whom you entrust your control.

Fearing your need for control is just a damaging as investing that control in the wrong hands, since a person who needs total control tends to wonder through life aimlessly and without direction. Those who are products of abuse, tend to choose abusive controllers, for the simple reason, their mind is conditioned to equate abuse with belonging and often, confuse it with love.

What is an Orgasm and how does it happen

Over the course of many years, i have never met a woman who had any idea, how the orgasmic process in her body worked. Understanding its operation has the effect of extending both the duration and the intensity of each orgasm. When the mind is free of fear, then the intensity and duration of the orgasmic experience is defined by the imagination and intellect of the woman but limited by her aerobic physical conditioning, since the orgasmic moment is the best exercise known but only has real value as an exercise, if the body and mind can substain it for an extended period of time. In so much as the orgasmic process places significant physical requirements on the body to enjoy the imagination of the mind, the better your physical condition, the longer your duration.

Oh, I am sorry, you thought I was going to tell you how it worked :-)). If you are truly interested, i am certain you will find a way to discover this little known fact for yourself