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The Cougar Illusion

Modern day woman, in her attempt to charge a disappointing sex life, is turning her attention to seducing men, younger and in some cases, much younger than they are, in the hope that their youth will provide the sexual stamina to permit the woman to achieve orgasm and satisfaction which has otherwise eluded her when having sex with partners near her age.

We regret to say, this popular notion of better love from younger partners is a fallacy for the following reasons:
1. Timing
Men reach their sexual peak by age 25, women in their early 40's
2. Erotic pleasure
90% of erotic pleasure originates in the mind, not the body. therefore it is the size of the mind, not the size of the cock that is responsible for sexual satisfaction.
3. Need
Man tends to have a single erotic focus, penetration, while the needs of women are multifaceted and vary greatly from one women to the next.
4 Secrets
All women have dark secrets which men almost never have a clue exist for the simple reason women seldom openly admit these secrets, and man believes they "are the man" and can therefore satisfy all desire, in the same way, by mere penetration alone. Women believe on he other hand that the longer the sex the greater the satisfaction. In fact mostly that equals a sore pussy and a hungry mind.

Conclusion

Woman does not need physical penetration to achieve erotic pleasure, and physical penetration absent mental penetration, is an erotic illusion, which will fade into the sunset when the novelty of the younger man wears off, and the woman realizes, nothing has changed other than how other women look at her because of their desire to have what she has.

Solution

Find the partner, whose mind has the intellectual power to command your erotic mind to sexually yield and you will have something far better than any toy real or imaginary. Women bear great responsibility for the existence of this issue by their fear of disclosing to their partner, exactly what they need, and from this vacuum, man is left to conclude, physical stamina is all that is required.

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The Nature of Beauty

Beauty as they say, is in the mind of the beholder, but is that true for all or do we see beauty absolutely in more than one dimension. Each of the senses, visual, smell, taste, sound and touch, combined or separately usually identify attraction. In vanilla, visual attraction is the foundation on which attraction is most often, but not always based, specially by men. Women on the other hand find smell to the the most attractive component of their desired lover. What ever the attraction turns out to be it is usually primary to any other personal characteristic of an individual

Beauty or attraction, in a true Submission/Domination environment tends to be the inverse of Vanilla beauty because it is almost always the product of what can not be seen, but what can clearly be felt or expressed by the woman. Rather than the senses, forming the primary attraction, it is intrinsic qualities like passion, unselfish committment to giving, desire to submit to the pleasure of another that more closely defines beauty in a true submissive.

Oddly enough, many submissive women who have all the traits of submissive beauty, while fitting the Vanilla definition of beauty, do not see themselves as beautiful, seeking only to add pleasure to the life of another, rather than calling attention to a physical trait of themselves. Therefore, by definition, no woman can be a true Submissive who views their physical traits to be superior to their inner qualities for the simple reason that their area of concentration, is themselves, leaving little to share with others.

Can a Vanilla beauty become a Submissive beauty, yes, when desire to give, rises beyond the level of the desire to admire. However, a Submissive beauty, once so identified, will always remain a Submissive beauty, for the simple reason that beauty on the inside is intoxicating, almost like a drug high, that once attained, one will never ever relinquish.