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Is Girl Power Worth The Cost
Most studies of female sexuality have concluded that real orgasms in women are rare, even in female to female relationships for two reasons, Trust and Control. They have concluded that since most women fake their orgasms, therefore few men have any idea what a real orgasm looks or feels like, therefore making men believe they are the super stud with a faked orgasm . This is the secret power women have used for year, like a fighter, taking mans best erotic punch and walking away. Do men actually believe all women live to give him a blow job on demand of is delighted to let him orgasm on the face, body and clothes, actually, yes most do. Yet each and every time girl power takes all man has to offer, yet gives not from her store house of passion., she loses a little bit of herself. . We men are such simple minded creatures.
It has worked so well for hundreds of years, why change it now. Excellent question, yet the answer is simple. Life today is compressed in units of time and with such complexity that what worked yesterday like newspapers, tube television, etc, is no longer relevant to this moment in time. While the changes in time has little it any effect on most men since sex seldom caused them to invest their free mind, it has catastrophic effects on the erotic mind of woman, filling her head with the pressure of unreleased passion with more arriving each and every morning that soon alcohol, drugs, food and anxiety become her best friends. A recent book, bad as it was, "Fifty Shades of Gray" , is a reflection of woman's search for more, a book that would have been banned a few short years ago, has been embraced by all levels of society. Women are looking for answers, The book, reversed the characters abuse and erotic needs to make the book more appealing to a broader audience.
One should not feel sorry for men because it is their selfish sexual attitude that helped to create this problem in the first place aided and abetted by their best friends, religion and power. Secondarily, the problem is also enhanced by who else, mother nature. In order for either sex to reach a true orgasm, their erotic mind must be totally engaged in their partner. In the case of a man, this engagement is easy to confirm because without it, there can be no erection. Now in the case of his female partner, there is no unassailable signal, the the mind is totally engaged in her partner. Given even her desire to engage, little things like sexual abuse, fear and trust keep clogging up the engagement pipeline, Finally, in the case of a woman, most believe if they were to permit a total release of their erotic passion, all control of the relationship would pass from her to him.
Now men on the other hand, once erect, naturally assume, their partner is as engaged as he is and plows straight ahead. What happens thereafter are different variations of sport fucking with the female in total control of the process because all the male wants is an orgasm, and the knowledge that he is a more superior sexual being than all other men on the universe, which the female is more than happy to provide, by producing what i like to call, an orgasm on demand. Since most men have never seen a real one, the fake one more than does the trick
Now in every confrontation, there is a risk and a reward. for women the risk is faking the orgasm because the erotic energy that would have been released never leaves her mind and body. Without that release anxiety and depression, become her best friends. Therefore, a delicate balance is created between the need to release erotic tension and the ability of a free mind to orgasm without total loss of control.
Masturbation and exercise provides some relief for most women, but even in the privacy of her own space, and to the extent all the ghosts of yesterday, fear, abuse and control, still are alive and well in her mind, a total release is still not possible. Meantime, her male partner is a happy camper knowing he is king of her erotic world, hh ha, while she lies quietly in her bed, lost and alone even in his presence, for most men, make no effort to return in any wat to their partner the pleasure and release that was given to them.
