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Eroticism vs Control

Virtualy all women, of all ages, validate their womanhood, not by childbirth, but by the value of their erotic experience. The range and intensity of that experience is impacted in many different ways, such as social norms, religious beliefs, opportunity, abuse, violence, fear and rape to name a few but collectively they form a very rigid system of control, sufficient to which denial of erotic pleasure is almost always the result. Given that woman achieves her finest erotic hour, when she is free to lose all control, it counters that the existence of that control limits not only her erotic pleasure but also her ability to love virtually all but her own children.

Control, such as in denial of erotic pleasure is usually a consequence of mental trauma occasioned by an act of sufficient violence or fear, to cause the mind to subdivide into the strong and the weak. Once that occurs, pleasure and the capacity to love is greatly diminished until such time as the strong and the weak are reunited.

Many women, who suffer from control issues, are not aware of its existence, but feel an emptiness inside often leading to depression, over eating, drugs and alcohol. Usually, they will place the blame of a failed relationship on their partner, and almost never, themselves because the strong are never at fault. The more intelligent the woman, the stronger will be the control.

The first step in blending the two or more personalities together is recognition that they exist. Once you realize they exist, you can become aware when the strong tries to block the weak. Finding a friend, male or female who is willing to help you identify the conflicts as they occur will be highly useful in resolving the divide between the two.

Once the personalities are blended together, and no other source of fear or control is present, the change in erotic intensity and pleasure is almost instantaneous.

Squirting and pleasure

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Many women, will discover, at the height of their erotic release, they suddenly squirt spraying them and their partner with liquid, which instantly becomes a source of great embarrassment. Just the opposite should be true for to get to the erotic moment, where your muscles are so relaxed as to permit yourself to squirt, simply means you are experiencing a near total erotic release. The same can be said of the splinter muscle that controls the anus.

If a woman experiences any kind of release, it is vital that she view it as a part of her erotic pleasure and never ever as an act to be embarrassed about. If she chooses to be embarrassed, then her mind will automatically control all future releases, stopping each before they get to the point of loss of control,and she will never reach that erotic plateau ever again. If her partner has an issue with her squirting, suggest she replace the partner before trying to control the squirting. Squirting is a natural part of the orgasmic process for many women and if they are forced to attempt to control their squirting, they will effectively have limited their orgasmic pleasure.

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Tears and Pleasure

Many a woman, in the mist of a intense deep orgasm, suddenly has a strong impulse to cry while enjoying pleasure beyond understanding. Most, in this situation find the conflict between tears and pleasure unimaginable thinking something is seriously wrong with them to have the urge to cry while enjoying an erotic orgasm of great intensity.

Tears and orgasms both are members of the emotion set of a woman, and they can perform, both separately or jointly to release an excess of emotion to great for either to handle alone. In fact cuming with tears is a sign of having done a sensational job in releasing pent up emotions. Sex after all, other than procreation is all about release, and there is no better way to let it all go than to cum and cry together