Why do Men

Prefer a

Blow Job 

As a person who was never a big fan of blow jobs i've often wondered why they were so favored by so many, both men and women.  There are of course, the obvious reasons, simple, quick, immediate and portability almost any where works.

Then there are the not so obvious reasons, male relief without the possibility of pregnancy (unless she tricked you of course), and the woman's ability to satisfy her partners erotic need without risking an emotional attachment which is always the risk a woman assumes with conventional sex.

However, I think i may have discovered the holy grail of blow jobs rational. Watching pictures and movies of male on male sex, one observation is generally always true. Male on male sex appears to be more mechanical, than male female sex, lacking in obvious emotion, tenderness or hugs and a sense of an emotional bond so common in male female sex. I am not suggesting there is no emotion bond in male to male sex, its just vastly different in how it is displayed during a sexual encounter.

Could it be, that mans emotional composition has little in common with woman's sense of passion and therefore is generally incapable of or in fear of any connection which might translate into an emotional connection. This gives new meaning to the old saying, "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Women are generally happy to indulge mans oral needs as it for them is quick and does not subject their erotic mind to an unfulfilled erotic moment.

Generally, man is a selfish lover, only concerning himself with his pleasure and assuming once he has enjoyed his release, his partner by definition has enjoyed hers simply because he enjoyed his and it is her responsibility to please him, period.

I believe, the differences between how erotic emotion is expressed by different sexes defines the physical response but respects the erotic intellectual need to achieve erotic release.