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It is interesting, how physiologically, men and women, generally without conscientious knowledge, approach sex, with totally different needs, which to them, appear the same.

Man, by his sheer simplicity, generally maintains a limited focus, cuming at any price, usually without regard for the need of his partner to achieve a similar climax.

Women are much more complicated creatures by nature but have learned to subvert their sexual needs to that of pleasing her male partner, even and usually at the expense of her erotic needs. Women have learned, when man asks "was the good for you honey, she must respond with yes dear, it was the best", even as her erotic needs are dieing inside, for to risk offending male superiority, is to lose the partner, be sexually called cold, and worse yet to be defined as a nympho, which is at best only a figment of mans imagination as a way to deal with women they can not satisfy.

The erotic needs of women run far deeper than even most women realize and are directly linked to their mental health. A healthy sex life, is a womans way of balancing her excess passion. Without a healthy sex life to balance their passion, women slip easily into depression as the passion seeks, like water, to find its own level. See discussions of the link between passion and depression else where on this site.

The link between sexual completion and passion is the single biggest difference between the sexes and the most important reason why woman can not permit their sex life to be less than satisfactory given the needs of their passion to be released.

Women have to be strong enough to explain to their partners, before sex, that there exists the possibility that the male climax alone may not give her the release she requires. Women, who have masterbated extensively, have also altered the recepters in their vigina such that the labia lips no longer provide the primary sexual stimulus they once did, and now digital stimulation of the clit becomes necessary for them to achieve erotic completion.

Women who have issues, arising from molestation, rape, incest abandonment, etc, generally, can not achieve sexual completion, until the circumstances of the abuse is resolved in her mind such that guilt is no longer a barrier to erotic completion. Once again, failure to share that information with her partner, guarantees sexual failure since the past will mentally block erotic pleasure and the woman will be considered as cold or uninstristed.

Therefore, it is imparative that women, freely share their needs and erotic history with their male and female partners before sex, and abandon any partner who is not inclined to consider their needs as important as that of the other partner. Any woman, who dares not find the way to erotic completion, will find depression becomes her best friend. Release the pentup passion, and watch the depression go away

Women liberation, extends to the bedroom, not just the board room.