Why Do Some Women Fear Their Passion

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Passion, as in all else, comes in many different forms and with varies levels of intensity, some so low as to be almost absent while others so strong, that they feel with intensity almost every thing both personal and even from strangers with whom they come in contact, yet never actually meet.

Women, whose's lives are defined by passion, tend to believe that they feel is what everyone else feels, but for whatever reason, they do not respond as they feel compelled to respond. They can see a story real or imaginary, and feel the same pain as the person in the story.

Simple things, others take for granted, such as a harmless touch on bare skin, or a kiss, ignite a fire storm of emotion that causes their erotic mind to send signals their erotic zones when that was never the intent of the touch or kiss.

To protect themselves from constant passion over loads, these women dress in a way so as to leave little exposed skin, shy away from being hugged kissed or touched as a way to manage their passions response to everyone in which they come in contact with.

This super sensitivity, becomes a much more serious issue when applied to a young girl or grown woman who has been the subject of sexual abuse, or rape. Given the super sensitivity of their skin, they are forced to respond to both abuse and rape as if they were the aggressor and not the victim. This response of course, leaves the victim, feeling guilty and wondering what was wrong with her, since she knows others who have faced this violence have not responded as they did, not knowing all the while, that the intensity of their response was a function of their passion and is therefore not comparable with anyone else.

Finally, consider the case of a your girl, possessed of super sensitivity, who on discovery, places a sex toy into her body with a resulting response, that effectively causes her to sexually abuse herself out of the fear of her erotic response that was expressed without fear, and was therefore complete and total. Most faced with that moment, never recover, because like all other things female, they believe, all women are just alike.

The intensity of this self induced reaction can resemble sexual abuse and trigger a traumatic memory event that will erase the event from memory until later in life when another event triggers the memory to return. During the period from the beginning to the end of the trauma, the woman is likely to be asexual from an unknown fear pending the return of her memory. once the memory is recovered, the sexual intensity of her passion will return