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Actually, most people like to be controlled, reference the number of organized groups for both men and women. I believe both sex's need control equally, but women tend to be more honest about their need for control than men. Women are often compromised by their passion to seek control while men are embarrassed by their need to be macho to admit what they need. In the hands of the right master, either sex can be essentially gender neutral
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Please hear me out before you start wagging your finger at me :)
I believe in the cave man theory.
From the early days of B.C., we had caveman and cavewoman - and naturally, the strongest and most capable caveman endured. The strongest caveman was resourceful and skilled as a hunter; as a result, he was able to capture and kill the finest dinosaurs and animal species. He enjoyed the finest of T-Rex sirloins, while the less powerful caveman was only able to pick berries and salad greens - he simply lacked the strength and power that was needed to survive in an untamed world.
Now the cavewoman was attracted to the brute and brawn of a man - and simply put, ADT and Brink's security were nonexistent back then, therefore the strength of a caveman meant alot - it equated to security - and security equated to survival. So who wins the girl 9 times out of 10? The big, strong masculine caveman. And I am assuming that out of 10 women, 1 is probably a vegetarian, so she was cool with Mr. Scrawny Caveman. But the majority of women at that time flocked to Mr. Strong Caveman. He was the man.
Of course, as the scrawny caveman lost out on luring the finest of women, over time he had to invent things like technology, sushi, cars, airplanes, books, stoves, etc. not only to balance the playing field, but to mitigate the potential threat of extinction. He did a great job of putting a monkey wrench in the Strong Caveman Domination theory, and to ensure that he would have staying power, he invented a nasty word to describe the strong man once dominated over the land: GOON. The scrawny caveman owned businesses and created major power moves in life, while the strong caveman had to work security jobs and earn meager pay to stay afloat.
So what did the strong caveman do to compensate? He invented boxing, football, soccer and basketball, began to earn legions of fans around the world, he unionized, and now (today), he is "balling".
So, I think that I get it. Woman need security, financially and emotionally. The brute strength of muscles and intelligence create a balance that should appeal to a woman.
But, I'm curious if any girls who are reading this.... would answer a question for me ...
which is better, brains or brawns?
I'm a brain girl, all the way baby.
P.s. what did this have to do with this post, well, men are usually the providers and the safety net and leaders of the pack, where as women are usually the nurturing followers of the group.
Hence although, I am tolerant of those who wish to be something other than their gender role expectation, i still believe in it.
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