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The Female Orgasm

Or Lack Thereof

Ever wonder why so many women admit they are never sexually satisfied not by verbal admission, but by seeking more and more sex partners and or gang bangs. Sexual relief is not achieved no matter how many partners they have,  how big the cock or how long they are fucked, the elusive "O" never seems to happen.  Yet they will tell their partners how great they were and god yes did i cum hard stud, u are the man. Many women have been faking orgasms for so long it has become an automatic reflex

There is a fear among many women to admit to themselves, their partners or husbands, that the big "O" simply did not happen for fear they will be branded as being frigid.  These women suffer in silence convinced they are the problem. Studies of human sexuality have suggested only 15-20% of all women ever achieve a real orgasm. This writer believes the real number is much lower.

Orgasms,  contrary to popular wisdom, in both men and women, do not depend on cock size, breast or ass size, color or the  physical body of the male or female partner. Orgasm's depend almost entirely on the degree in which the mind is sexually and erotically stimulated. Therefore, it is important that the stimulation of the woman comes before that of the male, which is just the reverse of how sex usually occurs.

Man, in order to obtain an erection, must have his mind stimulated to produce the same volume of blood flow to his cock as is the volume required for a woman to orgasm. Far too often, once the male erection is achieved, sex begins, without the female beings mentally stimulated to the same extent as her male partner. 

When the male reaches orgasm, minutes later, the female is just warming up, but for her, it is suddenly over. The males, seeking validation for his ego often will ask "honey, wasn't that great"  and she of course flatters the male ego and say's "yes" it was the best, wondering "really" in silence. 

Often she uses digital stimulation to get some pleasure as soon as her partner  goes to sleep or leaves the room. It is interesting to note, many males refuse to permit their partners to use toys of any kind after sex because the use of such toys offends the male sense of male ego

Big problem, simple solution. Women, insist that your male partners erotically and mentally stimulate your mind to the point that  you are lubricated and your clit is hard and sensitive in much the same fashion as the male cock, and then and only then turn your attention to the males stimulation. Any males, who demands to be first should cause you to demand they go home :-).