Matter
The Women’s Rights Movement helped women
to make great and important strides in employment, equal pay for equal work and
the self image of the importance of being female, a revolution which has not
been lost on the next generation of young girls.
While the equal rights movement
successfully began a revolution in the structural life of women, it ignored the
emotional changes the structural change would make in the mental health of
women. Many women concluded success in the work place required women to behave
more like men in a complete reversal of woman’s traditional role in family
life.
Many women believed the equal rights movement inferred
a sense of equality with men that nature never intended to occur, because the
two sexes have completely different emotional and mental health needs. The
emotional needs of women differ from those of men as does night differ from
day.
The emotional difference can best be
observed in the way each sex uses energy. Men tend to have strong bursts of
energy, far in excess of the power of woman. Woman on the other hand has
measured releases of energy that provide the energy to manage their family
obligations each and every day. Men can not match womans sustained release of energy just as woman can not match mans burst of energy release.
The importance of hormone generated energy
becomes important in the way such energy is dissipated during the course of
each day. Man enjoys many outlets for the daily release of his excess energy.
Women on the other hand while needing the identical energy release generally
only have two options, exercise or sexual orgasm.
The problem for women occurs because few have
the time at the end of each day to exercise after work and family
responsibilities. The female orgasm, natures built in excess energy release valve
is stuck in the off position for any number of reasons ranging from male
insensitivity demanding his satisfaction while ignoring hers, to her inability
to overcome prior sexual abuse leaving her mind frozen in sexual neutral.
Absence of the release of pent up energy
in women creates energy over load, a mind she cannot shut off, and a near
constant search to find mental peace. The search for mental peace seeks any
available source, generally beginning with food graduating to substance abuse
before checking into emotional over load, and depression.
To end this spiral of emotional denial,
women must take a proactive stance with their partners to give their emotional
release equal attention and shun relationships which do not offer equal
relationship opportunity. Exercise can work for many women but sex should be
mandated to work for all, if equal right for women is to ever achieve its real
promise.
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