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I'm a Woman Why Can't I Orgasm

A woman's erotic pleasure and ability to orgasm is dependent on the absence of fear which is generally a result to what she experienced before her first consensual sex act, either through innocent play, abuse in all its many forms and or rape. 

Some women accidentally are victims  of their own hand by unintentionally causing their first orgasm, the power of which may include the loss of mental and physical control, leading to a shock to the mind causing the nerve sensors to essentially turn off so that future nerve impulses are read by the mind as pain and stopped immediately.

What occurs in self abuse above is essentially the same as what occurs in physical abuse, sexual abuse and or rape. In many of these cases, the abusers makes perfectly clear to the victim, that the abuse was her fault because "she made me do it." In far too many cases, the abuse generates a traumatic shock to the brain of such magnitude that the brain erases the memory of the event, and treats any further stimulation as pain. This result is commonalty known as "Post Traumatic Shock Disorder" (PTSD).

Some forms of abuse can become addictive and are passed down from family to family, and cause the abused to only seek abusive partners since they equate abuse with love. No matter how the woman arrived at the point where pleasure registered as pain, in most cases, it is reversible provided the fear is addressed before it becomes embedded in her mind. That condition will require professional help.

If you experience pain during sex, can never get enough sex, or find yourself ending sex because you find yourself on the verge of losing control then in some cases, you can self correct the problem by talking it out with your partner to the extent he understands and most of all, you trust him to take care of you, as your first real orgasm can be a very scary ride.

Female orgasms are much more important than the male variety because they release excess energy generated by their hormones to permit them to perform their role of mother, wife and worker, which energy is far greater than that created by the male hormone. Nature provided the female orgasm as a release for unspent energy, much like a pressure cooker.

Failure to release built up pent up energy is not good for woman's mental health as i believe it is principally responsible for addictions to food, alcohol and drugs, ending in depression and or migraines each of which is predominantly a female issue rarely observed in men.

Gentlemen, if you love her, make her trust you as the quality of her life and your relationship depends on putting her needs first. Sport fucking is not a healthy alternative for a woman who can not orgasm.