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The Essence of Absolute Power

 

Women of the world are best defined by who and what they are not, rather than who they really are. They are taught from cradle to grave that each is alike in the same fashion as cookie cutters, yet we know there is no such thing as  normal where women are concerned. Each and every woman enjoys dark thoughts, yet almost none dare give light to their darkness for fear of being labeled an outcast witch or mentally deranged. Religion and society, have painted a picture of womanhood designed to serve a purpose of domination and control.

 

The picture of womanhood so artfully painted into the mind of each woman as they grow into womanhood defines a person who is made to believe in the inherit weakness of their sex, and cements a natural submissive mind into a weak and fearless person. How is woman to celebrate herself when all that defines her from cradle to grave causes great shame and fear, having to live a life that does not reflect who she really is inside.

 

The reality of womanhood, when all the layers of control are removed displays a person who enjoys a sense of intellect, strength of character, passion and giving, which  arises from their natural role of care givers to all. As a consequence woman lives a double life, one which society requires and one who she was born to be. Her sense of passion drives the erotic needs of women to a point women fear and society refuses to recognize. Therefore, woman has learned to hide and guard, her erotic passion as if it represented all the gold in Fort Knox, for failure to do so, is to lay bare her passion with a total lack of control.

 

Like men, women require a total erotic mind commitment to achieve a real orgasm, something almost no woman ever achieves, because surrender, defines her weak spot, releasing a tenderness she is powerless to control. Therefore, women have learned to give to men, only that which is necessary and not a single drop more.She has learned to use mans sense of power to her advantage by being the instrument of his pleasure by any means necessary without making or taking a substantial erotic risk of her own. Woman has learned that management of men's sex requirements are simple no matter the delivery method, and that man has no idea he is being used as her sexual pawn in a game in which she has limited erotic investment

 

Not submitting her erotic mind to her partner yields greater power for woman than man, in his best moments, can aspire too. Of course, this game women play can also be turned against them, if they are lucky enough to meet the person, male or female, who can pierce their protected inner core of passion and thereby take control of her mind. However, for most women, this is a fairy tale that never comes true. The amount of trust necessary to give rise to a total erotic release is more often than not compromised by abuse thus creating a sense of erotic trust beyond understanding or attainment.

 

Men, on the other hand, like to define themselves by their notion of power especially when it provides dominance over less power hungry men or women. Men believe the mind of woman, though strange from time to time, operates exactly as does theirs and has the same or similar erotic needs and desires as that which pleases man. In so much  as man is both one dimensional and self centered, he presents an easy target for woman to control, without making an erotic investment in either the man or the relationship.

 

Man is sexually disadvantaged in sex in so much as he requires a full erection to achieve orgasm, and to achieve that erection, requires his total erotic commitment without exception. Man hunts sex like a predator seeking erotic pleasure in any form that creates "his orgasm", without consideration of the erotic needs of his partner.  Man has no idea that his female partner is almost always faking her erotic pleasure, to please her partner and to retain control of her erotic emotions. Mans physical power is offset by his need to always be in pursuit of eroticism.

 

When you consider the balance of power between men and women, Strength vs Sex, the rational of eastern religious leaders does not sound so dumb speaking from the males prospective. for man to preserve his illusion of power, women must be tightly controlled, denied access to education, opportunities and association with people or intuitions who promote sexual freedom and opportunity.

 

A recent quote from a eastern religious leader "women must remain covered so as not to tempt the men into their sexual charms" flies in the face of reality. Restrain the women so as not to taint the morals of otherwise good religious men. Recent statements in the US from mega church leaders promote a similar concept that women are by nature inferior to man and should be available to man as man so pleases. Therefore, men are groomed to believe they are lord of all they survey, and use that sense of power to take what they want, without realizing as they take, they lose control of that which they believed was beneath them.

 

Part of the way women deal with their passion is to deny themselves, that which they need if favor of that which they want. Full filling wants does not risk emotional attachment, but full filling needs drives passion to the core of her being. To reach the core, one must pass trust, and that is a journey few men ever get to enjoy.

 

It is amusing to this writer, that while most women are treated involuntarily as property it is the slave, who at the end of the day, through the manipulation of mans need for sex and ego, expressed in his own sense of self, who can usually get what they want and or desire, However, nothing comes with out a price, and in the case of women, denial of a real orgasm, creates mental in balances between passion and need, that almost always express themselves sooner or later in addictive food, drink and or drugs on the path to depression.

 

Religion has been used as an enhancement to male power, but the question begs to be answered, does male power trump female power, especially when viewed in the light of the intellectual, and emotional edge women enjoy over men. It gives new meaning to the phrase  "Toping from the Bottom"