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Definition of Woman

Women are beyond question the strongest and most intelligent member of the sexes so why then do they submit to men and why do they view themselves in a frame inconsistent with their reality. 

Women most women that is, define themselves by the size of their breasts instead of the size of their minds. it matter not, what role a woman plays, be it dominate or submissive, her mind is the core of who she is and who she is not. 

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Master or Mistress

Does Sex Really Matter

The answer depends on the nature of the relationship the slave seeks. A slave interested in a pure slave relationship is only concerned about service and therefore the only thing which should be important to the slave is the mind connection between the slave and the dominant and the extend each is interested in addressing each others needs.

On the other hand, a slave seeking either a male or female only master is more interested in a sex relationship with a bit of kink thrown in for god measure. Friends with benefits limited to their sex of choice is essentially a vanilla relationship more related to sport fucking than it is to d/s. 

You may ask, how can you conclude this to be so. for two reasons, raw naked passion does not know gender. raw naked passion can be challenged by abuse and fear but in its pure form, passion always rises to the level of opportunity.

The second reason is related to the nature of slavery in and of itself. A real slave is driven by service, a driving need to please another, to do what ever is required to bring the slaves, dominant pleasure, for the sheer joy of the gift and without expectation of return. Where you notice a slave who wishes to limit the choices of the dominant as in only me, is by definition not a slave as the slave wishes to define her master not the other way around.

Much of what passes for d/s relationships are really vanilla taken to a slightly higher level of kink and in most cases, the slave is topping from the bottom. Relationship based solely of physical abuse absent any emotional attachment by both parties is an extension of a mental defect or childhood abuse where love is confused with pain and love in and of itself, can never be the basis of trust or respect.

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Energy = Fuel+Passion+Aggression

The human body requires energy to power the brain and the heart, the combination of which provide nutriments by way of veins nerves and arteries to the total body making motion and thought possible.

Once the energy requirements of the body have been satisfied, the energy remaining is available for use as either passion or aggression.

The distribution of passion and aggression in each person is a function of their harmones and gene pool and not necessarily their sex, and more important, the ratio of each differs from man to man and woman to woman. Genes and gens alone associated with their harmones,define the ratio of each in each person.

While a woman typically has more passion than aggression and a man typically has more aggression than passion, one can often find the exact reverse in some combination, again based solely upon their genes and associated harmones

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Energy=Fuel+Passion+Power

Energy is provided to the human body in the form of food broken down into its many components to provide the fuel necessary to operate the brain, nerves, heart and associated internal organs required for motion and thought.

Passion defines depth of feeling for both individuals and causes of all kinds, while power defines brut strength and aggressiveness, each of which, passion and power, exist in all people relative to their sex hormones and genes. 

The amount of energy that remains, after all provisions for fuel have been satisfied, are then available to the brain to distribute based upon the genes and hormones of each individual. Given that no two people except identical twins etc, have the same gene and hormone pool, the distribution of the remaining energy varies from individual to individual with each person getting some of each power and passion differing only in the percentage of each.

Typically, women get more passion and less power and men more power and less passion but the percentages of power to passion and passion to power can vary widely from woman to woman and man to man. 

The amount of power relative to the amount of passion typically defines an aggressive dominant male or woman while the amount of passion relative to the amount of power typically defines a submissive female or submissive male.

It is not unusual for these ratio's to be reversed making the male the submissive and the woman the dominant. 

What is important however is that the amount of passion or power varies widely from person to person woman to woman and man to man, therefore , there is no such definition of normal with respect to passion and power in either males or females.

Hormones levels in both male and females define variations and combinations of  both passion and power

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Passion the Root of Religion

 

Passion Defered

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When a woman of any age who is blessed with great passion, has no outlet for that passion, the passion behaves much like a pressure cooker, with the pressure in her mind building each and every day until something gives in her mind producing either an erotic action or an application of pain to dull the pressure of the passion pressure.

In the case of adolescences, this will usually manifest itself in antisocial behavior or and application of pain which will dull the pressure of the passion. Often this is expressed as cutting, sexual acts and or other social mall adjustment. It can also result in panic attacks when there is no other form of pressure relief.

In adults, the pressure cooker operates much the same as it does in adolescences  except adults have more choices. However, in the final analysis, theri fate is not much better than the younger women because aduts believe sex can relieve their pent up passion but given that so few women ever experience a real orgasm, sex most often makes the problem worse and not better. 

However, in both cases, there is a simple solution, aerobic exercise, the kind that gets yoru heart rate up to 120 bpm for at least 60 minutes per day. Of course one can elect a drug regimen which will dulling the passion will turn their mind into a dull waste land. Both young or old women will suffer simular issues from passion including application of pain to dull passion and or panic attacks or both

Why Do Some Women Fear Their Passion

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Passion, as in all else, comes in many different forms and with varies levels of intensity, some so low as to be almost absent while others so strong, that they feel with intensity almost every thing both personal and even from strangers with whom they come in contact, yet never actually meet.

Women, whose's lives are defined by passion, tend to believe that they feel is what everyone else feels, but for whatever reason, they do not respond as they feel compelled to respond. They can see a story real or imaginary, and feel the same pain as the person in the story.

Simple things, others take for granted, such as a harmless touch on bare skin, or a kiss, ignite a fire storm of emotion that causes their erotic mind to send signals their erotic zones when that was never the intent of the touch or kiss.

To protect themselves from constant passion over loads, these women dress in a way so as to leave little exposed skin, shy away from being hugged kissed or touched as a way to manage their passions response to everyone in which they come in contact with.

This super sensitivity, becomes a much more serious issue when applied to a young girl or grown woman who has been the subject of sexual abuse, or rape. Given the super sensitivity of their skin, they are forced to respond to both abuse and rape as if they were the aggressor and not the victim. This response of course, leaves the victim, feeling guilty and wondering what was wrong with her, since she knows others who have faced this violence have not responded as they did, not knowing all the while, that the intensity of their response was a function of their passion and is therefore not comparable with anyone else.

Finally, consider the case of a your girl, possessed of super sensitivity, who on discovery, places a sex toy into her body with a resulting response, that effectively causes her to sexually abuse herself out of the fear of her erotic response that was expressed without fear, and was therefore complete and total. Most faced with that moment, never recover, because like all other things female, they believe, all women are just alike.

The intensity of this self induced reaction can resemble sexual abuse and trigger a traumatic memory event that will erase the event from memory until later in life when another event triggers the memory to return. During the period from the beginning to the end of the trauma, the woman is likely to be asexual from an unknown fear pending the return of her memory. once the memory is recovered, the sexual intensity of her passion will return