Nympho's

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Nympho's

The concept of women, whose sexual appetite is beyond satisfaction is a fantasy, invented by men to explain their inability to bring a sex partner to orgasm and completion. Whenever, a woman's erotic mind is not engaged in sex, no completion will occur no matter how long or how many sex partners she might have. This explains gang bangs where women simply turn off or dis engage their erotic minds for sexual exercise something the kids call sport fucking. Unfortunately, far too many women have no idea where the switch lies to turn their erotic minds on, nor do their partners have any idea that there is such a need and a switch.

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The Nature of Erotic Energy

The human body is composed many parts and pieces, but among the most essential are the energy cells, fueled by the chemistry, that produce power and makes motion and thought possible. This energy cell, often in religious circles referred to as the spirit, is what dissipates upon death of the physical body. The energy that fuels our daily life, is at death, returned to the environment to seek other opportunities since the amount of energy in the universe is constant. Therefore, what was once a part of human energy, may migrate into any other living thing.

This energy, that fuels our physical and mental being can be used by and expressed by the human body in many forms. To the extent our available energy is not required for motion or thought, it is stored by the body until the body's power, demands its release. The sexes, generally release this excess energy in different ways, voluntarily or spontaneously without conscious thought. Bursts of anger, passion, the arts, sports , physical activity are some of the obvious ways excess energy is released.

This writer has long wondered about the difference between men and women as it relates to their susceptibility to depression, because the rate of depression in women is far greater than in men. I postulated that this was generally caused by a failure in women to release passion, a problem most men do not have. However, what i failed to take into account was that passion was but one of many forms of energy which could be dissipated in other ways.

Men for example, while not generally as passionate as women, still have the same amount of energy as women, yet they express it in so call macho ways. Men enjoy physical activities from sports to war, each of which permits the release of their pent up energy.

Woman on the other hand, tends to be less physically macho, and therefore have less of a tenancy to release as much excess energy as do men in their daily lives. Unless they are predisposed to male type physical release, they must seek other outlets for their excess energy. Erotic passion is but one, of the many ways excess energy can be released by women, but unfortunately, it is the only release available to most, yet few achieve that release as explained earlier in this blog.

Activities which are mind based, such as artistic design, playing music are other ways energy can be released. Physical sports such as running and swimming, aerobics etc, also provide a release of excess energy. Most have heard of the so called runners high, that is accomplished by the feeling of energy release.

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Men Fuck to cum, women fuck to Breath

It is interesting, how physiologically, men and women, generally without conscientious knowledge, approach sex, with totally different needs, which to them, appear the same.

Man, by his sheer simplicity, generally maintains a limited focus, cuming at any price, usually without regard for the need of his partner to achieve a similar climax.

Women are much more complicated creatures by nature but have learned to subvert their sexual needs to that of pleasing her male partner, even and usually at the expense of her erotic needs. Women have learned, when man asks "was the good for you honey, she must respond with yes dear, it was the best", even as her erotic needs are dieing inside, for to risk offending male superiority, is to lose the partner, be sexually called cold, and worse yet to be defined as a nympho, which is at best only a figment of mans imagination as a way to deal with women they can not satisfy.

The erotic needs of women run far deeper than even most women realize and are directly linked to their mental health. A healthy sex life, is a womans way of balancing her excess passion. Without a healthy sex life to balance their passion, women slip easily into depression as the passion seeks, like water, to find its own level. See discussions of the link between passion and depression else where on this site.

The link between sexual completion and passion is the single biggest difference between the sexes and the most important reason why woman can not permit their sex life to be less than satisfactory given the needs of their passion to be released.

Women have to be strong enough to explain to their partners, before sex, that there exists the possibility that the male climax alone may not give her the release she requires. Women, who have masterbated extensively, have also altered the recepters in their vigina such that the labia lips no longer provide the primary sexual stimulus they once did, and now digital stimulation of the clit becomes necessary for them to achieve erotic completion.

Women who have issues, arising from molestation, rape, incest abandonment, etc, generally, can not achieve sexual completion, until the circumstances of the abuse is resolved in her mind such that guilt is no longer a barrier to erotic completion. Once again, failure to share that information with her partner, guarantees sexual failure since the past will mentally block erotic pleasure and the woman will be considered as cold or uninstristed.

Therefore, it is imparative that women, freely share their needs and erotic history with their male and female partners before sex, and abandon any partner who is not inclined to consider their needs as important as that of the other partner. Any woman, who dares not find the way to erotic completion, will find depression becomes her best friend. Release the pentup passion, and watch the depression go away

Women liberation, extends to the bedroom, not just the board room.

Depression and Passion

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Depression Vs. Passion

Most women, at some point in their lives, will suffer bouts of depression from moderate to severe. There are many causes of depression, from chemical in balance, and abuse both physical and sexual, to an overall unhappy feeling about life in general. Often, one or more of these conditions will exist together at the same time.

Many of these women will function at a very high level when they are working, but when they come down frm that working high, depression sets in and becomes their best friend for the rest of the day. In an attempt to control the feeling of helplessness, bad habits often manifest themselves. These habits run the gamit of possibilities but usually include, random sex, over eating leading to obesity, drinking in excess, drugs or a combination of each of the above.

Most depression goes untreated, except for the serious cases where the woman can not function. Many women are embarrassed by their depression, seeking the way they feel as an imperfection of their character, and not a consequence of their past. The women treated, often they find the treatment worse than the depression. Generally, only those women whose depression is caused by a chemical in balance can benefit from drugs.

There appears to be a direct link between a woman's need and response to passion and her susceptibility to depression. Often sexuality inadequacy in the in ability to complete orgasm, or so called dark thoughts creating feelings of being abnormal, are the primary root causes of their depression. Abuse, untreated, and caused by a host of factors, can also be resolved by feeding the Passion

Therefore, if u cure the needs of and satisfy their passion, the depression will usually disappear. Unfortunately, feeding the passion while being a need, is almost always the more frightening choice for the woman. feeding the anger, alcohol, drugs, food and random sex, make so much easier choices.

Treatment, feed the passion, to kill the depression, all in simple happy strokes. Run to what you need, never to what u want. If you choose to feed your eroticism, give yourself what you need, no matter what others may have to say about your needs, and feed your sex, not from your body, but from your erotic mind. If u choose to deed your body (sport fucking) and ignore your mind, which controls 90% of your need for passion, nothing will change.

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Fear and Freedom

The existence of virtually all humanity is defined and limited by how they process, eliminate or control fear in their lives. Quality of life is defined by identifying and limiting or eliminating fear.

Unfortunately, fear is most peoples best friend. Many are consumed by fear, without having any idea from where the fear originated. There is no aspect of life, that fear does not control.

Therefore, maturity in large part, is spent identifying, limiting or eliminating fear. Much of fear comes from people who are supposed to love and care for children. Fear is a by product of abuse and chemical imbalance. Those who claim to love us, know of the reason for our fear, or recognize the fear in our eyes, yet do nothing to help set us free, pay lip service to love.

A real Dominate Slave relationship grants to the slave, an opportunity to release their fear in an envelope of trust and safety, but only to the extent, slave or dominate recognize the existance of the fear, identify the source of the fear and then eliminate the fear to the extent possible. Every piece of the mind that is dedicated to fear, holds hostage vast amount of pent up pleasure.

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The Concept of Limits

D/S relationships differ from vanilla relationships principally based upon the application of total trust, which is missing inn most vanilla relationships. Therefore, where trust lives, between Master and Slave, limits can not exist.

Now some might say, that is not possible, i do not like this or that, however, it is possible but only if the slaves identifies with a dominate in whom she can place her complete trust without fear. Any dominate who has the ability to gain the total trust of his slave, will also be gifted enough to understand the limits to which this slave can be led in the absence of all fear.

Fear and absolute trust, can not coexist together, and almost all the time, fear is the clear winner. However, in those rare cases, where trust lives, fear can not, therefore limits of any kind do not apply.

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The Trilogy of Domination

Most members of the human community are submissive in nature by operation of birth with each serving their chosen Master in their own, sometimes unidentifiable way. The three choices are Fear, God, and Human Dominant.

Fear is by far, the greatest Master, and, in and of itself, negates the opportunity to serve another, for to embrace fear presupposes one has the control required to mitigate the existence of fear. Therefore, he who chooses fear, limits their humanity and diminishes their life, while constraining the life of those around them by the limits of their fear.

God, is chosen by most, as their master, yet he who serves fear, can not by definition, serve god, since god is greater than fear, and true belief in god, should eliminate fear.

Human Dominant, while widely publicized, is rarely real, since this person, must be free of all fear, and not intimidated by the existence of the fear of religion. The Human Dominant, be they male or female, is a rare creature, sufficient unto themselves, has no need to call attention to themselves, and exists for the purpose of leadership to whom and for whom, it maybe required.

There are many people, both male and female who engage in great acts of strength and courage, accomplishment and success, but never associate outward success, with inner strength, for many of those same people are infected with a sense of fear beyond understanding.

To know know the difference between the true dominant and the apparent successful dominant, one must look into the content of their character and identify one simple trait. True dominants are unselfish, all others are self centered and therefore by definition, consumed by the fear others bring who surround them.

Rare is the human, who can walk in his or her own shadow, embracing all who come near, and fearing nothing along the way. If in the course of your existence, you meet such a human, follow him or her, where ever they may lead, for wherever they go, fear does not follow. If you go where fear does not follow, be your dominant or slave, you are free.

No one, who serves fear, can serve another, be they god or human, for fear is all consuming and commanding and defines and limits your existence to the diminutions fear defines. Fear however, ca not live in the face of desire or courage, so at the end of the day, fear is but an option, until u permit it to be your master.